About
Changing the way the world sees divorce.
Hillary Livingston, M.S. and Bethany Pace, M.Ed. are the creators and co-founders of Sincerely, Divorced ā a vibrant community reframing an often-shamed shared experience with compassion, humor, and hope.
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What drives us
Our purpose, impact & work
Ā Mission
Disrupting the narrative of divorce
Their mission is simple: to disrupt the narrative and prevailing experience of divorce while celebrating the fortitude it takes to face and overcome one of lifeās greatest adversities, one breakdown and glow-up at a time. In the end, Bethany and Hillary are dedicated to helping people embrace the bold idea that their happiest days are ahead.
Ā Impact
Recognized and felt worldwide
The impact of their work has been recognized and felt worldwide. In addition to running their very popular Instagram page, Hillary and Bethany are the minds behind Divorce-Conā¢ and The Show About Divorce, and the peopleĀ have send handwritten notes of encouragement to people on every continent except Antarctica and write chalk messages outside of courthouses and other visible places to give others hope.
Ā Work
Hope and humor for hard topics
Bethany & Hillary are known for their authenticity and ability to apply hope and humor to difficult topics in a way that transforms life transitions into powerful opportunities for growth and realization. Whether it's a keynote, workshop, or a conference, their insights, stories, and warmth will help you support the people you care about.
The Founders
Meet Bethany & Hillary
Co-Founder Ā· M.Ed.
Bethany Pace
Bethany Pace, M.Ed. is passionate about building community and inspiring optimism and hope in others. Through Sincerely, Divorced, she supports a vibrant community for all people navigating relationship loss, parenting, and rebuilding from a place of strength and optimism. Bethany is also an ambiguous loss grief coach specializing in disenfranchised grief, secondary loss, and non-death loss, including divorce, friendship loss, identity changes, career loss, and the loss of expected futures.
Bethany holds a B.A. in journalism and an M.Ed. in counseling, both from The Pennsylvania State University. She has also completed postgraduate continuing education in grief and doctoral work in community education.
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Hillary Livingston
Hillary Livingston is the co-founder of Sincerely, Divorced, a global support community dedicated to breaking the stigma of divorce and ending the isolation people often feel after the end of a long-term relationship. With over 10 years of experience in marketing, communications, and event planning, she brings expertise in creating meaningful connections and leading high-visibility initiatives.
Prior to founding Sincerely, Divorced, Hillary served in various communication, event planning, and project management roles. She holds both a bachelor's degree in Psychology and a master's degree in Human Resource Development from Towson University.
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"Embrace the bold idea that your happiest days are ahead."
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Specializations
Areas of Expertise
Bethany
M.Ed. Ā· Grief Coach
- grief, ambiguous loss, suffocated loss, and secondary loss
- positive reframing and optimism
- gray divorce, mid-life divorce, divorce after 20+ years marriage
- amicable co-parenting with your ex-spouse (and their new partner)
- tween & young adult divorce transition and adjustment
- religion, faith, and divorce
- dating and companionship in mid-life
- cultural and socioeconomic nuances of divorce
- LGBTQ divorce and intersectional identities
Hillary
M.S. Ā· Strategist
- Disenfranchised grief
- Attachment styles
- Navigating divorce with young children
- Divorcing while pregnant and as a SAHM
- Marital infidelity
- Covert narcissist abuse
- Navigating family support
- Dating after divorce
- Millennial divorce
- Emotional regulation
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